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Parents of Those with BPD - What to do? PDF Print E-mail
Written by A.J. Mahari   
Saturday, 30 May 2009 21:22

Parents of a teen or adult-child who has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder often feel guilty. There are cases where there has been neglect, abandonment, or abuse, and then there are cases where someone who did the best they could and did not abuse a child ends up with a teen or young adult-child who is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Parents often feel such a responsibility to help their borderline children no matter how toxic and/or abusive a situation becomes.

Last Updated on Saturday, 30 May 2009 22:38
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Loved Ones - Difference Between Support and Rescue PDF Print E-mail
Written by A.J. Mahari   
Saturday, 30 May 2009 21:21

Loved Ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder need to fully realize and radically accept that supporting and loving someone with BPD doesn't mean trying to rescue or enable him or her. Crossing the line between support and rescuing which basically ends up enabling often leads to the person with BPD in your life demanding more. It hurts way more than it can help.

Last Updated on Saturday, 06 June 2009 21:18
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Borderline Personality Disorder and The Pain Of Abandonment PDF Print E-mail
Written by A.J. Mahari   
Saturday, 30 May 2009 21:14

Those with Borderline Personality Disorder have to contend with a deep and profoundly pervasive pain that they often aren't even consciously aware of. This pain, at the heart of BPD, is the pain of abandonment. Those diagnosed with BPD living their lives through the protective and narcissistic borderline false self are so busy protecting from this profound and pervasive pain that they actually end up perpetuating it in ways that not only cause them to re-experience it but in ways that keep them stuck in the very pain and suffering that is Borderline Personality Disorder.

Last Updated on Sunday, 31 May 2009 10:05
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Splitting in Borderline Personality - Understanding for Loved Ones PDF Print E-mail
Written by A.J. Mahari   
Saturday, 30 May 2009 21:18

Borderline Splitting and Loved Ones Understanding  - If you are a loved one, family member or relationship partner of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari, mental health and ife coach, in an audio program talks about Borderline Splitting to help loved ones better understand it and the reality that they really cannot rescue someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Last Updated on Sunday, 31 May 2009 10:06
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Articles about Borderline Personality Disorder PDF Print E-mail
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Wednesday, 20 August 2008 05:11

Please check back here very soon for many articles coming about Borderline Personality Disorder. If you would like to submit an article, please register for a free account and you will then see in the left hand menu a submit article link.

  • Are you an author of a book about BPD?
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You can submit an article or articles by registering for an account on this site. Please join us won't you? We'd like to hear from you and we'd so appreciate your sharing your experience, your book, your advocacy efforts, your professional knowledge about Borderline Personality Disorder to help educate and inform others.

 

Last Updated on Tuesday, 02 June 2009 17:35
 
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